tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4134631784318235978.post8510338241495480724..comments2023-04-12T08:13:04.539-06:00Comments on Good Enough: You say that I'm the boy, who can make it all come true....Gracehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00432157510458184788noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4134631784318235978.post-89366544696128240372009-12-26T12:19:43.741-07:002009-12-26T12:19:43.741-07:00Lynn, :-) Thanks...I know he did ~ he knows he did...Lynn, :-) Thanks...I know he did ~ he knows he did, too. At least who he "thinks" he married. <br /><br />Harriet, I know. I just still feel like I cannot be "real" with him either. And it's tiring. <br /><br />BP, Thank you for sharing your truth. I don't know...I guess Harriet said it right, it isn't pass fail...I think I was just reflecting because 15 years of marriage is a long fuckin' time when you're married to someone you no longer communicate with...<br /><br />(that may not have come out right...)<br /><br />~ GraceGracehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00432157510458184788noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4134631784318235978.post-5980110774234351112009-12-26T08:38:25.545-07:002009-12-26T08:38:25.545-07:00I have borderline personality disorder--no-one can...I have borderline personality disorder--no-one can be "that guy" for me. Realizing this freed me from the pain of trying to pursue romantic relationships. I'm not saying it is the same for everybody but that is my truth. I relate to the feeling too that no-one can ever really know those of us who have been hurt in certain ways.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13492500438485341912noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4134631784318235978.post-9231083983584046522009-12-25T10:45:05.712-07:002009-12-25T10:45:05.712-07:00You didn't fail. Marriage isn't pass/fail...You didn't fail. Marriage isn't pass/fail anyway. At least mine isn't, even though I feel the same way you do at times.Harriethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10151061142781327531noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4134631784318235978.post-9410574490782262862009-12-25T03:05:15.415-07:002009-12-25T03:05:15.415-07:00Anon is right. You ARE a gift. And you have NOT fa...Anon is right. You ARE a gift. And you have NOT failed. Do any of us REALLY know exactly what will happen in the future with our spouse when we marry? No, we do not. In spite of what you deal with, dude got one hell of an awesome good deal.Ethereal Highwayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01120557764517618673noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4134631784318235978.post-47374691510672361542009-12-24T21:39:55.745-07:002009-12-24T21:39:55.745-07:00Dear Anon ~
Thank you...that's why I continue...Dear Anon ~ <br />Thank you...that's why I continue to write. To talk to people like you, who like me, want to be heard. Thank you for giving me the gift of your comment, even anonomously ~ I hear you...<br />Merry Christmas to you, too...<br />~ GraceGracehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00432157510458184788noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4134631784318235978.post-55492079829762199322009-12-24T21:30:49.284-07:002009-12-24T21:30:49.284-07:00Grace, I've wanted to write you daily for mont...Grace, I've wanted to write you daily for months but I've kept quiet- sorta mastered that:)I need to thank you for speaking to me,for me, day in and day out. You speak my truth, share my pain and give me comfort. For this I thank you and wanted you to know you're a gift, not under my tree but in my heart. Merry Christmas!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com