tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4134631784318235978.post4893663714134780847..comments2023-04-12T08:13:04.539-06:00Comments on Good Enough: Feeling the same way all over again...singing the same lines all over again...No matter how much I pretendGracehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00432157510458184788noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4134631784318235978.post-111869718490333832010-01-29T20:44:11.084-07:002010-01-29T20:44:11.084-07:00Glad you made it through.Glad you made it through.Ethereal Highwayhttp://www.etherealhighway.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4134631784318235978.post-31914619557236933472010-01-29T15:59:50.020-07:002010-01-29T15:59:50.020-07:00I've been married for 21 years, and I frequent...I've been married for 21 years, and I frequently ask "What the hell am I doing here?" But I think it is good to question the relationship, it prevents you from taking things for granted. But it does take more than love to make a relationship work, a lot more than love. I'm a terrible communicator too, so sometimes resentment builds. And it's so hard to make decisions when we're in our own personal bad place too.Harriethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10151061142781327531noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4134631784318235978.post-38332538656677269072010-01-28T22:31:08.731-07:002010-01-28T22:31:08.731-07:00Sorry - I reposted. I have been sitting her conte...Sorry - I reposted. I have been sitting her contemplating my death all evening and then when I realized what I posted - it sounded a bit gloomy. You know, the mask and all. So I took it down.<br />I put it back up - and have taken an abundant supply of sleeping pills and washed them down with a few glasses of pinot noir. See that's why I'm fat, I drink too much wine. Too much everything. I hope I die before everyone realizes what a fraud I am. <br />G'night...sweetheart....it's time to go...<br />(((LYNN)))Gracehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00432157510458184788noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4134631784318235978.post-77875644441757480872010-01-28T20:52:41.897-07:002010-01-28T20:52:41.897-07:00Poop. I came back for another read of the lovely y...Poop. I came back for another read of the lovely you just took down. It was good.Ethereal Highwayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01120557764517618673noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4134631784318235978.post-11485158455032221822010-01-28T20:15:14.149-07:002010-01-28T20:15:14.149-07:00Wow Grace, this was somewhat of a topic last night...Wow Grace, this was somewhat of a topic last night in session.<br /><br />I feel exactly the same way as you do right now. I have been what T says is ambivalent about my marriage for the four years I've been in therapy. Four years!!!!!!!!Psych Clienthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17311029286506932562noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4134631784318235978.post-78984271815580828892010-01-28T18:11:55.841-07:002010-01-28T18:11:55.841-07:00Yes, you DO have someone to talk to. I'm still...Yes, you DO have someone to talk to. I'm still here and I'm still loving on you.<br /><br />{{{{{{{{Grace}}}}}}}}<br /><br />(Perhaps you can address where the unease in the relationship is coming from? Make a pro and con list?)Ethereal Highwayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01120557764517618673noreply@blogger.com